Seeing Yourself in the Mirror

The time will come when,
with elation
you will greet yourself

arriving at your own door,
in your own mirror,
and each will smile
at the other’s welcome,
and say, sit here. Eat.

You will love again
the stranger
who was your self.

Give wine.
Give bread.
Give back your heart
to itself,
to the stranger
who has loved you
all your life,
whom you ignored
for another,
who knows you by heart.

Take down
the love letters
from the bookshelf,
the photographs,
the desperate notes,

peel your own image from the mirror.

Sit.

Feast on your life.
— Derek Walcott

I won’t add much to this poem by Derek Walcott entitled Love After Love. I’ve been struck by these words and stumbled on the poem enough times that I found it worthwhile to share with you. In particular, I love the notion of peeling the image we have of ourselves off the mirror to reveal the living breathing person here in front of us. Thanks for being you.

 
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Next time you look
in the mirror,

maybe notice how

you are brand new
Right Now.

”Peel your own image
from the mirror”

and maybe offer
this new person
some love.


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